With a little practice, you can be a more effective communicator. More so than famous people, athletes and politicians. Here’s how.
I’ve been a fan of Marc Maron’s WTF podcast quite awhile and was surprised former President Barack Obama had decided to visit Marc’s garage in LA and give an interview.
Then I listened to it.
And I got annoyed. (And for anyone who thinks I’m going down Politics Road, sorry to disappoint.)
President Obama is known for giving moving and commanding speeches. However, delivering a prepared speech (read from a teleprompter, notes or even from memory) is a lot different than answering extemporaneous questions or giving an interview.
If you want to be a great communicator, you have to think about all areas of speaking and abstain from some of the problems that have crept into the President’s speech.
Avoid Filler Words
Our Needs Improvement Communicator- in-Chief’s words were sprinkled with ums, uhs and you knows. Known as “filler” words, they have no place in your discourse if you want to sound authoritative.
Here are some examples of things you should work to eradicate from your speaking:
- Uh, um and er creep into speech when you’re thinking about what you’re going to say next and forget to close your mouth.
- Like is Valley Girl speak. Or as used by Will.i. am and scolded hysterically by Miriam Margolys in this clip from the BBC’s Graham Norton show
- Don’t use xerox or repeat words. Here are some examples: “I-I” or “You know- You know” etc. Just say it once.
- You know is a phrase that you shouldn’t use unless you need to say “Do you know what you’re doing?” or other appropriate sentences.
- The words so or and so are unnecessary when you’re transitioning from one sentence to the next.
Don’t Drop Your G’s
Here are some examples of some words ending with g’s: reading, thinking, going, caring, saying…You get it.
Here’s how the President pronounces them: readin’, thinkin’, goin’, carin’, sayin’…
I don’t know where he dropped his G’s, but I hope he doesn’t have to pay for them to stay there. Not completely pronouncing a word is fine for casual conversation, but consistently missing a G doesn’t elevate your level of conversation.
Whenever President Obama refers to people, he calls them “folks.” If this happened occasionally, it could work. However, he does it all the time, even when discussing serious matters.
Being A Great Communicator Takes Practice
Once you’ve learned how to listen for filler and crutch words, you’ll notice them everywhere. You’ll hear them used by politicians, professional athletes, actors and anyone who hasn’t practiced speaking in front of the public.
At Toastmaster meetings, where people can learn to become better speakers, a dog clicker is used each time a person slips up. The once innocuous tool used to discipline pets becomes a dreaded but effective method to eradicate bad habits in speech. Filler words quickly cease.
If you want to be a better speaker, practice eradicating these small problems from your speech and you’ll be able to say that you are a more effective communicator than the President.
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